Take the time... you have it, you just can't see it. I know you are the only head of house hold now, but it does not mean you have to sacrifice EVERY thing for your sons. There is still YOU in that threesome... remember, you have to put YOUR face mask on first, before you can help anyone else.
Time to put on YOUR mask... meet new people. Enhance your life.
Trust me. You do not need to dedicate every minute of every day of the rest of your life to the kids. They are going to be fine. But NOT if you don't get your mind and your heart right.
PUT THE DAMMED MASK ON BEFORE YOU RUN OUT OF AIR....
Just like I responded back to you on my site. All the good guys are gone and the ones that are left are either married, gay or they have issues. I'll keep to myself after what happened this evening. Done deal.
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How sad......
Sad, lonely and bit depressing. I was expecting a house full of adults/kids tonight. Found out last night, that just wasn't going to happen anymore.
I'm sorry. I wish things would have worked out different.
Like I said, guess they've moved on. I keep trying to, but I'm not going anywhere fast.
Do you think they might have thought you wouldn't want to have a party this year??? Just guessing here.
Maybe. But they could have asked.
Your right they could have taken your feelings into consideration.
It was as you thought. They were concerned for me.
We need to introduce you to new people.
There is the problem of just not enough time.
Take the time... you have it, you just can't see it. I know you are the only head of house hold now, but it does not mean you have to sacrifice EVERY thing for your sons. There is still YOU in that threesome... remember, you have to put YOUR face mask on first, before you can help anyone else.
Time to put on YOUR mask... meet new people. Enhance your life.
My clock is ticking and they're still so young. I don't feel right doing things "for me."
PUT YOUR DAMMED MASK ON!!!!
Tough to do. This all new. Don't actually know WHAT to do.
Trust me. You do not need to dedicate every minute of every day of the rest of your life to the kids. They are going to be fine. But NOT if you don't get your mind and your heart right.
PUT THE DAMMED MASK ON BEFORE YOU RUN OUT OF AIR....
WORKING ON IT!
Geez...
Take it at your own pace.
h2o, that's exactly what my therapist said. Good advice.
Just like I responded back to you on my site. All the good guys are gone and the ones that are left are either married, gay or they have issues. I'll keep to myself after what happened this evening. Done deal.
You take care of yourself
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